Moving up in the world....

So.... My boyfriend and I just got our very first apartment! We haven't moved in yet, we have to pay the lease and stuff but can i just tell you how excited i am?!?!

i'm so excited! lol

it's definitely a big step for us. now i'll def be bogging more often.I'll be talking about ALL the stupid shit men do! lol jk!

Respect the Dead yo

So....

it seems like theres a dead celebrity every other week or so but some people are still so rude. I mean, yeah so you didn't like that person but does it mean that you still have to be a douche bag about them dying... i mean really like today Cory Heim passed away and on someone's facebook status it said "Heim is dead, good, that's one less douchebag we have to worry about it. feldman, you're next" uhm... really... respect the dead man..... respect! it's not even like you knew that person personally all you saw was what was on televeision, you don't know their struggles or their hobbies, you don't know them like that so you can't judge.

RIP to everyone that has passed away... celebrity or not, you deserve to be respected whether they liked you or not

ugh! come on people

Black girl hair? or white girl hair?

So... my boyfriend and his sister called me up today and said that they were having an intervention bc i have a "product addiction" I thought they were talking about me having a hair straightener,blow dryer, 5,000 brushes and combs, hair spray,moose, etc., you know what i'm saying?

no... they were talking about wanting me to start using this black girl hair gel and that wasn't even the name of it, that's just what HE called it...

uhm...

I kinda didn't like that i'm not gonna lie, not bc my boyfriend is white and i think he's racist, but bc i felt like i was getting ganged up on...

I don't have the so called "black girl hair" or the so called "white girl hair" I'm right SMACK in the middle... I have "Hispanic girl hair" i guess you can say... I don't need as many products as the black girls but i need more products than the white girls.
My black friends tell me how much they love my "nice" hair and the white girls love my hair too, but it's clear that it's kinda different...

why do I have to be categorized? you know... damn... just had to get that off my chest bc it kinda made me mad a little bit...

no, i didn't break up with him, lol... he doesn't know any better i guess. he just likes running his fingers through my hair so i figuered i would just punish him by not letting him touch me, lol

Unwritten Rule...

So... isn't it an "unwritten rule" that you should not date your friends ex's or hook ups?

yeah... I thought so...

Some people don't follow rules apparently...
lucky for them though, I'm absolutely and madly in love w/my boyfriend and I'm no longer seeing my ex as a maybe... Thank God! or else shit would've really hit the fan, lol.

Just needed to get that off my chest.

growing up

aaah... Growing up....
For most people... it's a beautiful experience
for others... not so beautiful

Me... I just feel... OLD! lol
yes yes... I'm only 23 soon to be 24 on June 8th but really, I feel old.lol
I'm definitely more mature, and I feel like I view the world different and I'm looking for different things in my new found friendships.
Even w/me and my boyfriend... we definitely connect on a different level. We have mind stimulating conversations (sounds corny, i know... but so true) and we connect in a whole different level...

so, i guess growing up isn't all that bad after all! :)