No Doubt

So... I have another confession to make... I enjoy No Doubt's music... in fact... I LOVE No Doubt's music, and I don't like the newer "Hey Baby" sound, I love the "Spiderwebs" kinda sound, and their earlier stuff when they had the ska sound.... The only reason I'm telling you this and making a big deal out of it is because a lot of my friends tease me about me being Hispanic and listening to all sorts of other music... well don't get me wrong, I LOVE my Reggaeton,Salsa,Merengue, I LOVE my spanish music, but I also love Hip Hop, R & B SOME Rap, and I like Rock... nothing wrong with it right? just because I'm part of a certain ethnic group DOESN'T mean I have to like a certain type of music!

but any-who-ways,

that's not what I wanted to blog about. I'm talking about No Doubt in Concert! I went to watch them in concert on June 20th! can I just tell you... THEY.WERE.AMAZINGGGGGGG! They put on a show! I was a little nervous about what kind of songs they would be playing bc Paramore was also in concert with them which meant that the arena would be filled with a younger crowd who wouldn't really be familiar with their songs, BUT, they played all of their old songs and I LOVED IT! if you're a No Doubt fan, I definitely suggest you go watch them in concert, and Paramore too, they were good...

actually...

I encourage ANYONE to go watch a concert if they had the opportunity, I LOVE concerts, the vibe and just the feeling of seeing your favorite artist on stage singing their music live! it's just amazing! so go to concerts, they might be a little expensive, but it's oooh sooo worth it!

xoxo

Asher Roth && Kid Cudi

ok ok, so I have a confession... I absolutely LOVE Asher Roth && Kid Cudi.

for those who have been living under a rock, Asher Roth is most commonly known for his "I Love College" song which ironically... I can't stand! everything else I like. Kid Cudi is known for his "Day 'N' Night" song... which... I happen to like a lot.

So Asher Roth, he's a 23 year old american rapper from PA. A lot of people think he sounds like Eminem... I think he does a little bit... kinda like a young eminem... anyways,

Kid Cudi is a 25 year old rapper from Ohio, I Love this guy... all of his songs.. all of them! his style is more like Kanye West, Common.. you know.. those guys and I heard somewhere that he actually got his big break off Myspace... if that's true, then dang... that's pretty awesome!

anyways... what I like about both these guys is that they rap about normal every day stuff... I haven't heard a song from either of these guys where they're talking about killing anyone or having sex in the club or anything like that... they talk about smoking weed (which i don't do, but a lot of kids our age do that) going to school, being shy around girls,etc.,

so yeah... you can say that i have high hopes for these 2... they are definitely making it to the top! i suggest everyone to listen to at least one song from each of them, i guarantee you'll like at least one of them.

try:
Kid Cudi
~Embrace the Martian
~Pillow Talk
~Day 'N' Nite (try the Crooker remix or w/e... that's my fave)
~The Sky May Fall
~Man on the Moon

Asher Roth
~She Don't Want a Man
~La Di Da
~Be By Myself
~Lion's Roar
~Cannon

I hope you enjoy it :)

Weekend date

So... I went out w/the boyfriend this weekend and we watched the Hangover...

He didn't like it that much, he only laughed at a few jokes, but me... I thought it was pretty good! lol
I Love comedy (and so does he, but I mean.. I laugh at everything so it's really not fair, lol) and yes I do agree that it was consistent laughing but there were some big parts that were extremely funny!

pretty much, the movie is about 4 guys who go out to Las Vegas for a night to celebrate their best friends last night as a bachelor... one thing leads to the other and pretty much they loose the groom! so his 2 best friends and his future brother-in-law go all around Vegas trying to find him... the problem is... they have a huuuuge hangover and they don't remember ANYTHING from the previous night...

I don't want to ruin anything for anyone, but one of them gets married to a stranger, pulls out his own tooth, they steal a cop car, end up in jail, steal Mike Tyson's tiger... yea... weird stuff happens...

If I had to give it a rating... I would say... 3 stars out of 5... fair enough right?

Over Protective parents

hm... I have a question... how many of you guys have had to deal with over protective parents?

yea... I do...

I am 23 years old...
when does it end?

honestly, how do i get them off my back!

did you know that the first time I ever slept out was this year!! at 22 years old that was my first sleep over... well... that my mother new about... my first sleep over was at 22 but it was in 2008... wow... just wow... how pathetic is that?

I feel like i can't live my life w/o having to go through my mother first, she has to approve of everything? are you kidding me?

why can't parents just give children the freedom that they need in order to grow...

i'm all for the love your kids so much and try to protect them from harm, but seriously, a kid that is too over protected will either grow up to get hurt all the time bc they don't know how the world around them works, or they will grow up and rebel and try everything that is out there!

get a grip parents, you can't protect your kids from everything dammit!

How do you know?

How do you know you're in Love?

I mean... I've been in Love 2 other times... or so I think

My first was just that... my first... I was with him from the age of 18 to 20 and he ended up cheating on me.. he had issues himself... he pretended to be a cop and got arrested twice during our relationship...

I'm not bitter about that relationship bc honestly i learned a lot from him... I grew up and he definitely made me stronger...

My 2nd Love... didn't work out either, everything was and still is great between us, but he's so depressed and stuck on his brothers death... he just wasn't and still isn't ready to be in a relationship... i don't blame him, and i don't hate him... but i thought i saw a future with this one...

in between those two loves i've dated around but nothing too serious... i still got heart ache from those "daters" even though i wasn't in love...

but this one... this new one... he's amazing... i'm not going to say that i haven't felt this way before, but i definitely have never had a boyfriend like him...
he's so calm, he always thinks about me first and he's so affectionate... i've never had someone just kiss me or hold me just bc... this one is definitely different... he's sweet, he's just simply amazing... and it also helps that his sister is my best friend and i've known them for about 6 years now... I actually see a future with this one...

when do you know it's the right time though? the right age? i'm 23 and he's 24... is it time to get serious? I hope so... bc i don't think i can go through another break up...

so far so good though... i def see the future and it's a good one!

Women need to learn how to go with the flow!

Women REALLY need to learn how to go w/the flow!
seriously!

k, let me explain myself!

I have 2 friends who are having issues w/guys I'm not going to say any names but we'll just call them Friend #1 && Friend #2

Friend #1 has this boyfriend who beat her and did coke... he ended up in jail for something and then when he gets out, he tells her that he doesn't want to be in a relationship he kinda just wants to do him for a while... they ended up getting back together but she ALWAYS ALWAYS ALWAYS has something to complain about. the latest was that her bf wanted to break up w/her bc she didn't tell him that she was going out w/a guy... she wasn't going out on a romantic date or anything, but she went out w/one of her girlfriends, their mom and this other guy... he was pissed... she calls me, and says "hey [boyfriends name] wants to break up w/me... what should I do?" uhm... what? what should you do? let him break up with you!! you can't stop someone from breaking up w/you! seriously! lol... she just never learns... she's always complaining about this guy but she never takes advice from friends or family! and seriously.... after a guy has put their hands on me, i would never ever get back w/them!

Friend #2 started fooling around with this guy who she knows through her brother... to make a long story short, she told him that she only wanted to have fun and was not looking for a relationship but after they had their fun she realized that she actually wanted more... he doesn't.... now she's upset bc he went back to his ex and she doesn't know what to do.... uhm.. ok... let me tell you a little bit about my friend.... SHE IS TOO AGGRESSIVE!


guys do not like girls who are too in your face! don't ask a guy too many questions and do not smother them (is that the right term? lol) so much!

guys are kinda emotional in their own way... if girls seem like they are going to get attached then they run away! they just freak out... i mean, i don't blame them, i would prob do the same thing, but seriously girls... learn how to go with the flow... i did.. and i'm doing just fine...

:)

Maine

So, I noticed that I haven't written anything in a few days... what's my excuse? I was in Maine for a week! BUT here I am ready to blog! I've decided to talk a little bit about Maine. aahhh Maine aka Vacationland (seriously... that's what their license plate says) the whole state is so calm, I really enjoyed myself When you're driving in it says "Maine... the way life should be" we had a house on the lake which was great because we got to go on a boat! all we did was relaxxxx it was great... the only issue that i had was that it's soooo far away from anything... well.. from any store, it was so bad! AND we had no cell phone reception! it's so bad! not because i couldn't contact anyone but bc if anything happened, then no one would know... unless i decided to get on Facebook or something and communicate the issue to the world... but other then that, it was beautiful... i highly recommend people to go and visit Maine! :)

Boobs!

So.... today i had a lot of free time and i was watching MTV's True Life: I hate my Large Breasts...

about that...

it is no secret that I, Von Marie Frometa, have big boobs... mine weren't as big as those girls but i am a D... now... I can relate bc those girls are so self concious about their boobs that they wld do almost anything to get rid of them...


I've never been like that, but I HAVE been so self concious that I refuse to wear certain clothes bc it makes them stand out more... I still am kinda sorta like that but i have actually learned how to deal w/it and if i ever did get a reduction...i would probably miss them and it just wouldn't be me w/o them... kinda like a Von w/no freckles...weird right?....

I honestly think that it's something that a woman has to work out w/herself... they need to love themselves enough to accept their body the way they are... i don't believe that anyone shld get a reduction bc of a self image issue that they have, if your back is hurting then go for it absolutely but really...

don't worry about the clevage... theres sooo many girls out there who wld love to have clevage like ours

don't worry about your boobs sticking too far out from your shirt
don't worry about how the dress looks
don't worry if they sag (don't get it twisted, mine DEF don't, lol) when you get older or start having kids... we will have NO control over how low our boobies want to go...

learn to love your body, bc if you don't learn how to love yourself than how can you get anyone else to love you or have any respect for you...

I LOVE my boobs
I LOVE my clevage
I look DAMN GOOD in a dress....
I accepted my body (well... besides a tiny belly that i have, but i'm working on that)

wear what makes you feel sexy (w/o exposing too much of course) and walk around w/confidence...

and same thing goes for the girls who would love to have bigger boobs
love the body that you're in... don't enhance anything bc someone else wants you to or bc you feel you will get more attention bc of your chest size... you will get the attention... but it's not the kind of attention that you want...when you find someone they need to love you completly for who you are and not what bra size,or what pants size you wear! Fuck them if they don't like your body, they shouldn't be trying to get w/you if they feel the need to change you...

and men...

too much muscle is gross, we like you just the way you are! you don't have to spend HOURS in the gym, I like my men w/a little meat on them :)

and oh...

size REALLY does not matter...really... if you know how to work it, then that's all you need :)

ok... sooo....

I think that's all for now...
I haven't written a blog in a while... i should get back in to that,lol

New

So... Hi Everyone! I'm a newbie... Just kind of wanted to say Hello, and I'm just trying to get a hang of this website... I Love blogging on Myspace so I figuered this is almost the same thing... well, a little bit about myself

My name is Von
I'm 23 years old
I live in Massachusetts but was born in New Jersey
I'm a Public Relations student at Salem State College with a minor in Italian
I'm Dominican and yes i am fluent in spanish...
hmm... what else...

I do believe that Public Relations is my calling... honestly... I Love the business and I really hope to work in the entertainment business...

I wanna be famous or at least be friends with the famous :)