Women need to learn how to go with the flow!

Women REALLY need to learn how to go w/the flow!
seriously!

k, let me explain myself!

I have 2 friends who are having issues w/guys I'm not going to say any names but we'll just call them Friend #1 && Friend #2

Friend #1 has this boyfriend who beat her and did coke... he ended up in jail for something and then when he gets out, he tells her that he doesn't want to be in a relationship he kinda just wants to do him for a while... they ended up getting back together but she ALWAYS ALWAYS ALWAYS has something to complain about. the latest was that her bf wanted to break up w/her bc she didn't tell him that she was going out w/a guy... she wasn't going out on a romantic date or anything, but she went out w/one of her girlfriends, their mom and this other guy... he was pissed... she calls me, and says "hey [boyfriends name] wants to break up w/me... what should I do?" uhm... what? what should you do? let him break up with you!! you can't stop someone from breaking up w/you! seriously! lol... she just never learns... she's always complaining about this guy but she never takes advice from friends or family! and seriously.... after a guy has put their hands on me, i would never ever get back w/them!

Friend #2 started fooling around with this guy who she knows through her brother... to make a long story short, she told him that she only wanted to have fun and was not looking for a relationship but after they had their fun she realized that she actually wanted more... he doesn't.... now she's upset bc he went back to his ex and she doesn't know what to do.... uhm.. ok... let me tell you a little bit about my friend.... SHE IS TOO AGGRESSIVE!


guys do not like girls who are too in your face! don't ask a guy too many questions and do not smother them (is that the right term? lol) so much!

guys are kinda emotional in their own way... if girls seem like they are going to get attached then they run away! they just freak out... i mean, i don't blame them, i would prob do the same thing, but seriously girls... learn how to go with the flow... i did.. and i'm doing just fine...

:)